Dating Different Women and what to expect WHITE WOMEN: First date: You get to kiss her goodnight. Second date: You get to grope all over and make out a bit. Third date: You get to have sex but only when She wants to and only in the missionary position. ※ make out = have sex or kiss and touch in a sexual way : You say like this " They are making out in the back of his car." IRISH WOMEN: First ..